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Confession number 1….
Ya know it’s hard getting fit. It really is, if you are or were ever “over weight” or had a few extra pounds that you needed/wanted to get rid of you know what I am talking about. Now with everything that’s going on with me, I like to workout now… WHAT?! You can like to work out?! Sheesh, great balls of fire!
I like it cause it gives me more energy for the day and for the (most part) keeps me in a relatively good mood all day which is nice. And if I don’t have that great of a day I can work out when I get home and work off the frustration from the day instead of eating it away. Which ya know is always the smarter version of getting rid of the frustration…
Confession number 2….
I am excited and nervous as shit at the same time, that Anthony and I are looking at apartments. We decided sometime last year we wanted to live together this year and also get engaged. So last night we looked online at some places, just to see prices and what it offers, and of course if it fits in the budget.
Anthony can pick up on my little “nervous” habits and asked me “are you nervous about getting an apartment?” I said “yes” he said “about living with me… ya know I am crazy”… I giggled cause that’s him trying to make me feel better. But it’s not that I’ll be living with a boy for the first time, it’s the BILLS, which would be our rent (which covers everything- we hope), grocery, cell bills, car insurance, & credit cards. And than you have money to actually ya know… have FUN. Dinner out, sporting events, boys night, girls night, mini vacations, literally anything that could keep us being a couple that we are now.
I mean Anthony and I are both on the right track, saving money, paying off credit cards, only eating out 2 times a month. So we are headed in the right direction with being able to move in together, we want to start scooping out places after September; and even to get engaged and to start planning a wedding.
So if any of you lovely ladies have ANY advice for moving in with the male species, not even “not” killing him, I am not worried about that. But just the all the extras, cause neither of us have lived out of home besides college. So any kind of advice even something laughable would be awesome!♥♥
So… what do you want to confess 😉
thanks for linking up! ok now for the tips: 1) figure out who is doing what when it comes to chores because for real yo, that shit needs to get done. have this convo once, post a list and never speak of it again. and list out EVERYTHING from who is cleaning the toilets, to doing laundry to cooking etc etc and put names against each task. SERIOUS life saver and will prevent fights. do NOT take on the load all on your own – you need to split that shit 50/50. trust. 2) finances. when i moved in with… Read more »
Just communicate. Figure out how each of you handles stress and anger and then respect that. I like space when I'm upset so my boyfriend knows to let me take a breath before having to have a conversation. And have fun! This is the exciting time!